Mornings for Us: Finding Structure in Toddler Life
My life with a two-year-old is a mix of wonder and chaos. Some days feel magical, while others leave me wondering how we’ll make it to bedtime. Between keeping my little guy entertained, managing the never-ending messes, and trying to squeeze in time for myself, it can feel like I’m constantly running on empty.
However, I have learned that creating a simple daily routine helps us both thrive. Routines give us a sense of calm and predictability in a sometimes overwhelming world. Let me share what’s worked for us because if I can find some structure in the middle of toddler life, I promise you can too!
Morning Kickstart: The Power of Starting Early
Ive learned that starting my day just 15-20 minutes before my son wakes up a world of difference. Whether it’s sipping my coffee while it’s still hot.. definitely a rare occurrence, doing a quick stretch, or just mentally preparing for the day, this little window of time helps me feel more in control.
When my son wakes up, I try to keep breakfast simple and predictable. Prepping overnight oats or having easy grab-and-go snacks ready means fewer meltdowns… for the both of us. Toddlers love routine, and breakfast is one part of our day that feels calm when it is predicable.
Organized Mealtime: Simple Meal Time Tips
Lets be real, meal prep isn’t glamorous with a two year old tugging at your leg. I have started prepping small things during nap time or on weekends, like cutting up fruit or cooking extra portions for leftovers. Themed dinners like “Taco Tuesday” or “Pasta Fridays” have become lifesavers. It is one less decision to make, and it keeps dinnertime fun.
Yes, some days we order takeout or heat up chicken nuggets. That is okay too, your little one just wants to eat with you, not judge your menu.
Nap/Quite Time: Recharge for Both of You
At two, nap time is starting to dwindle into the nonexistent… for those moments that he does take a nap, that is my time to play catch up on work, tidy up the house, or just sit in silence for a minute (because we all know silence is a luxury). If your little one is phasing out of naps like mine, introducing “quite time” with books, puzzles, or independent play can give you both a break.
Even on the busiest days, I remind myself: rest for him means a recharge or me.
Evening Wind Down: The Key to a Peaceful Night
Bedtime with a toddler can sometimes feel like a marathon, but having a routine makes it smoother. For us, a warm bath, a couple of books, and a cuddle are stables. My son thrives on the predictability, and honestly, it helps me wind down as well.
Once he’s asleep, I take a moment to breathe. Whether it is journaling, and watching a show, or just sitting in the quiet, I let myself reflect on the day…not what went wrong but what went right.
In the End: Progress, Not Perfection
Routines aren’t about perfection, they’re just about creating a rhythm that works for you and your family. Some days, our routine flows beautifully. Other days, everything gets thrown out the window…and that is okay!
Remember, mama, you’re doing an incredible job. A little planning can bring a lot of peace, but even on the messy days, your love and presence are what matter most.
